23
July
2007

Still I Rise0

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I’ve got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?
From Still I Rise by Maya Angelou

13
July
2007

Offensive Radical Feminist Comments About Sex7

This article in the Observer concludes with four quotes by “feminists who have rocked the boat.” The quotes included:
“In a patriarchal society all heterosexual intercourse is rape because women, as a group, are not strong enough to give meaningful consent” - Catherine MacKinnon, feminist author (attributed)
“When a woman reaches orgasm with a man she is [...]

5
July
2007

Figleaf On Women, Porn and Sex0

Figleaf has made an interesting post about porn for women here.
He’s suggesting that society thinks that most women aren’t really interested in sex - he’s calls it the “no-sex class” and that this is a reason why it may be difficult to define “porn for women.”
I won’t do a big post here because I wrote [...]

3
July
2007

Rape: What Grey Area?1

The Sydney Morning Herald has a blog called All Men Are Liars which discusses men’s issues. In the beginning it was a bit of a lad’s mag, but one year on it’s become one of the best reads in the paper. The author Sam De Brito often initiates discussions that the best feminists would be [...]

28
June
2007

Pole Dancing Ad Survives Complaints2

A few weeks ago I wrote about the Nando’s pole dancing mother ad.
Perhaps unsurprisingly, it’s been the subjects of numerous complaints to the Australian Advertising Standards Bureau. I’m pleased to say that they’ve given the ad the thumbs up.
The Sydney Morning Herald reports:

The board of the Advertising Standards Bureau agreed, ruling that pole dancing was [...]

21
June
2007

Women Have Sex Dreams Too0

A new Canadian survey has found that women have sex dreams as often as men.
Research from the past suggested that women did not dream about erotic situations regularly, however it’s entirely possible this may have been due to a lower level of reporting - women weren’t supposed to think about that kind of thing.
Health 24 [...]

21
May
2007

Get Involved In Masturbation Month2

May is Masturbation Month. Ahead of the upcoming Masturbate-a-thon in the 26th, I thought I’d do a masturbation-themed post with a few recommendations. Below you’ll find a list of masturbation-based adult sites and movies.
Adult Sites
Red Handed Porn
A self-proclaimed “alternaporn” site featuring both men and women getting their own rocks off. There’s plenty of non-standard body [...]

15
May
2007

Female Sex Fantasies0

The Sun reaches for the bold type in its report about women’s sexual fantasies, as polled by Glamour magazine. The survey of 12000 women gave the following statistics:
* 66% of women fantasise about having group sex
* 25% imagine starring in a porn film
* 20% fantasies about lesbian encounters
* 13% think of female friends in said [...]

11
May
2007

The Pole Dancing Mother With Peri Peri Cravings1

This ad gets my attention every time. This gorgeous modern woman works as a stripper… and then we see her as the typical advertising mother, eating dinner with husband and two kids.
Nandos sells Portuguese chicken. You don’t really need a patch for peri-peri cravings. And I’m sure it doesn’t put off clients with money.
What a [...]

10
May
2007

Study Says Women Aren’t “Rewarded” By Photos Of Men0

I like to report on research that shows how women are visually stimulated and enjoy porn.
Well, as with all research, there’s a study for everything and today I’ve found one which apparently contradicts all my views (and previously reported research) on women and erotica.
Scientists at the Centre for Neuroeconomic Studies at Duke University in North [...]

1
May
2007

Ladies, Improve Your Rump Presentation0

The BBC tells me that scientists are working on some kind of superpill that, get this, not only boosts a woman’s libido, but also reduces her appetite.
The sensible feminist part of me frowns at this, thinking that it’s yet another attempt to pharmacologically mould women into something they’re not.
The evil capitalist part of me wants [...]

16
April
2007

Feminoglers: Women Ogle More Than Men1

“Women aren’t visual.” Yeah right.
The Kinsey Institute has provided some fascinating research which shows that when it comes to looking at sexual images, women go for the crotch. And they spend a lot longer than men checking out pictures of sexual acts as well.
Dr Heather Rupp is the author of Sex differences in viewing sexual [...]

12
April
2007

Cake and Cunnilingus Day on Saturday0

Only two days until the second annual Cake and Cunnilingus Day!
I’ve made a special free site to celebrate: Lick My Cunt featuring some very hot oral sex photos.
And I also added a couple of new pages to the site, one listing various slang terms for cunnilingus and the other listing erotic cakes.
I would have liked [...]

5
April
2007

Orgasm And The Brain0

The Sydney Morning Herald has a good article discussing Beverley Whipple’s research into female orgasm and the brain (may require registration to read).
Did you know that:
The different nature of the orgasms is probably due to the four different nerves systems carrying sensations from these different regions to the brain. The pudendal nerve, the same nerve [...]

4
April
2007

Stampeding Towards The Clitoris0

In it’s usual breathless, bold-type manner, the Sun reports that a third of all women fake orgasms.
The average woman has sex 99 times a year.
But on 34 occasions the earth does NOT move. In the poll of 4,000 women, 30 per cent admitted they had faked an orgasm with EVERY partner they have had. And [...]

20
March
2007

Pelvic Simulators0

I think many women have got their own personal horror stories about pap smears or pelvic exams. That’s why it’s nice to know that computers are helping student doctors learn how to perform invasive exams before they ever get their hands anywhere near one’s twat.
There are now pelvic exam simulators that allow students to get [...]

14
March
2007

It’s Coming Up To Cake And Cunnilingus Day0

March 14 is supposed to be steak and a blowjob day for men. But don’t worry, girls, because in a month’s time it will be our turn.
The second annual Cake and Cunnilingus Day is on April 14.
This is the day where we can eat as much cake as we like, preferably with a man’s face [...]

14
March
2007

Another “Vagina” Rant0

The recent news about the two female students suspended for using the word “vagina” when performing The Vagina Monologues at school had me feeling peeved - once again - at the way so many people use the word “vagina” instead of “vulva” to describe a woman’s genitals.
Hell, if I was the principal, I’d feel tempted [...]

14
March
2007

Dove’s Campaign For Real Beauty Banned In US0

The US FCC has banned a television commercial by Dove cosmetics because it shows too much flesh.
The ads feature older women who are nude but discreetly posed, accompanied by the slogan “Too old for an anti-aging ad.”
Adland also reports that conservative groups are upset by the campaign because it is “contributing to the sexualization of [...]

11
March
2007

Older Women And Sex2

The Sunday Mail reports on new research into the sexuality of women over 40. It found that women were far more likely to reach orgasm when masturbating alone than with their partner.
55% of women with no partner could achieve orgasm every time alone, compared to 24.6% with a partner.
The study, called “What does sexuality mean [...]

9
March
2007

Adult Computer Games For Women0

Cnet news has an article on the push to make sexual video games more female-friendly. They’re essentially saying that current games suit straight males, especially because they’re about having instantaneous sex. Apparently women want to take things a bit slower.
The article has two particularly appealing bits. One is this rather garbled yet amusing quote:
“I want [...]

1
March
2007

Beate Uhse Closes Adult Shops For Women0

German adult mega-retailer Beate Uhse is apparently not doing so well. According to this report, it’s about to close all of it’s adult shops aimed at women, and two-thirds of it’s mainstream stores did not perform well in 2006.
The company will close the last of its Mae B. shops as their leases run out. The [...]

26
February
2007

Hot Gossip’s Naughty Bits0

As a kid growing up, the only TV I was allowed to watch on weeknights was at 6pm on the ABC (something many Australian 30-somethings will appreciate). This usually encompassed The Goodies and Doctor Who but it also included the Kenny Everett Video Show. This 6pm ritual is partly responsible for my sense of humour, [...]

8
February
2007

Won’t Somebody Think Of The Children!0

A book about teenage sexuality is causing a bit of a stir here in Australia. The Sex Lives of Australian Teenagers by Joan Sauers has prompted the usual hysterical rants from conservative politicians.
The author conducted a random survey of 300 teen boys and girls, asking questions about masturbation, oral sex, contraception and porn.
The best summary [...]

7
February
2007

The Hot Woman’s Handbook0