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I’m about to head off on my insane cycling adventure and I’m currently wondering if I’ve done the right thing – my body is complaining and I’ve now got a few injuries to worry about. Still, can’t be helped – we’re going whether I’m fit or not.

So here’s a few nice couples pics to tide you over. They’re from inside the member’s area of For The Girls.

I’ll return to my regularly scheduled smut when I get back.

A friend of mine is having a birthday soon and, giggling madly, I lashed out and bought him a fantastic present: a lime green Borat mankini. No doubt he’ll look superb in the outfit… if he’s ever brave enough to try it on.

I found myself doing a Google images seach for the mankini and discovered a surprising number of good looking guys who do a damn fine job of wearing this difficult garment. So I thought I’d compile them into a single blog post for your questionable ogling pleasure.

The Original Mankini


Sacha Baren-Cohen’s Borat is often credited with inventing the mankini but in truth it’s been out there for a lot longer. Digging around in my old humour file I found these two images taken prior to 2003. I don’t know who the guy is or where it was taken but I think he was the original inspiration for Borat’s mankini exploits. My photo is labelled “Rico Suave.”

This is a backpacker in Cairns celebrating his 18th birthday – from this news item.

This is allegedly John Mayer wearing a mankini on a boat but I suspect it’s photoshopped. Source. There’s also images of John Mayer sniffing a mankini onstage so he’s obviously a fan.

London mankini marathon! Source

And another one. Source

“Mankini for lovers” – this image appears on various adult store sites.

As does this one.

It’s always good to wear protection. Source.

Who knew you could actually swim in it? Source.

Matter of fact I got it now… this guy is so laid back he deserves to be in this gallery. Source.

This is Mankini Malph. He travels the world and takes photos of himself wearing the mankini in front of famous landmarks. He’s obviously a Dead. Set. Legend. Here’s his Twitter stream and here’s his website. Source.

Now this is what I’m talking about. Sexy guy engaging in serious glamour posing in a waterfall clad in a mankini. Source.

The lime green mankini does fairly well but if you’re after something a little different there’s an entire online store dedicated to selling the mankini. Yes folks, you can even buy a tuxedo mankini for that special occasion. What better way to say “I love you” than with an upmarket 82% polyester black mankini.

Fellas – is anyone willing to show off their stuff in a mankini? Send in your pics! Msnaughty AT msnaughty.com

The Sun held its own competition in 2007 – here are the entrants.

Our latest update at For The Girls features an exclusive interview with Spanish erotic filmmaker Erika Lust. I reviewed her film Life Love Lust last week and absolutely adored it. Its three stories are engaging, well executed and very sexy.

One of the more impressive things about this movie is the stunning cinematography. Erika says she shot it in high definition on a Canon 7D. This is the camera that has indie filmmakers raving because it can create such glorious film-like results for very little money. Having seen this film, I now want one.

You can watch Life Love Lust at Hotmovies or via Erika’s own site.

Here are a few pics from the film:

Today we’re launching the official For The Girls 7th birthday contest – The Female Gaze Erotic Film Competition.

The idea is to encourage representation of female perspectives in erotic film. We’re looking for short film submissions, under 10 minutes, that are erotic and embody the female gaze – a woman’s perspective of sex and sexuality. It doesn’t have to be explicit, although that’s always nice. It does have to include the number 7 within some part of the film.

The winner gets US$400 and a screening at Cinekink Film Festival in New York – thanks to the lovely Lisa for teaming up with For The Girls in this. The winner and runner up will feature in the member’s area at For The Girls. We’ll also consider licensing any other worthy films in our shortlist and the top 6 will get automatic consideration at Cinekink.

It’s not officially part of the comp but if I can swing it I’ll look into making the shortlisted films into a DVD. I can’t say that’s definite yet because I don’t know what sort of movies we’ll be getting or whether I can secure any kind of distribution. But it’s a possibility further down the track.

So if you’re an aspiring filmmaker, now might be the time to pick up the camcorder. It doesn’t have to be a hardcore epic or an Oscar-winning masterpiece. In essence, this competition is about encouraging creativity and erotic exploration, about taking a woman’s experience of sex and finding a way to visually depict it in your own way.

This competition follows on from Petra Joy’s awards held in Berlin last year – which I won. Having participated in that and having seen the gorgeous other films that were finalists, I want to see more and I want to encourage more filmmakers like me. Everyone has their own ideas about what is sexy and erotic. Here’s a chance to put it out into the world.

You’ll find all the info and legal details about the competition here. The deadline for entries is mid August so you don’t have long. Get out there and get filming!

I’ve written a guest post for Good Vibrations magazine. It’s called What Oprah Didn’t Tell You About Porn For Women.

I wanted to give a back-to-basics rundown of what I think are the main points about porn for women and what it encompasses. One of the things I wanted to point out is the ongoing blind spot the media has when it comes to websites. The Oprah show happily quoted the Nielsen Netratings statistic that one in three viewers of online porn are women… and then went on to only talk about films and DVDs. The freedom of the internet is one of the main reasons why women’s erotica has grown so much in the last few years.

Anyway, here’s a few paragraphs.

In November 2009 the Oprah show went to air with a controversial topic “Why millions of women are using porn and erotica.” The show breathlessly reported that one in three users of online porn are women and dispatched Lisa Ling to investigate this apparently shocking statistic.

While it was great that such a mainstream TV show wanted to delve into the whole topic of women and porn, the end result was less than illuminating. We didn’t really find out why so many women are into porn and we also didn’t get to find out about the growing genre of porn for straight women, both in films and online. Instead, a great deal of the show was taken up with an interview with ex porn star Jenna Jameson. And despite a valiant effort by author Violet Blue, the type of porn discussed stayed firmly within the realm of big-budget, LA porn valley productions, most of which consider women to be only peripheral consumers. As far as mainstream porn is concerned, women only watch dirty videos with their husbands and spouses, not on their own.

Oprah’s show skimmed the surface but it didn’t really present a clear picture.

So, what’s the real deal?

It’s true that a third of online porn consumers are women. This has been the case for most of this decade; the first Nielsen Netratings survey to reveal the one-third figure came out in 2003. Similar surveys around the world offer the same kinds of statistics and, given the popularity of porn, that equates to an awful lot of horny women.

Few major porn companies were prepared to embrace the female market until recently, and that was only when other revenue options began to decline. It’s still a standard maxim within the adult industry that women don’t watch porn. Plenty assume that women are just “not built that way”, that biologically, we’re more interested in romance or men who do housework than sex. The myth that “women aren’t visually stimulated” remains entrenched in the public imagination.

Nonetheless, women do enjoy erotic material. A study by Northwestern University in 2003 found that most women will become physically turned on by explicit sexual images, even if the conscious mind doesn’t agree. The research reflects what many women experience when it comes to porn – it can be arousing and fun to watch, although too often our brains are rebelling at the stereotypes, plastic surgery, unrealistic sex or bad dialogue.

Head over to Good Vibrations Magazine to read the rest.

Can you believe it, it’s my 6th Blogaversary! Actually, I’m a day late, I forgot! Anyway, I wrote my first blog post in the old format blog on June 7th, 2004. I’m now on my 2nd script and third design.

Added to that, it’s For The Girls‘ 7th birthday in June. I can’t believe how quickly that time went. I have to admit, I really didn’t think our little site would still be going strong after 7 years, let alone fearlessly soldiering through the collapse of the mainstream porn industry and the general bad financial climate. I’m so proud of FTG, what it stands for and what it’s achieved over the years. The site isn’t going away any time soon; women still seem to enjoy what we offer, even though the range of options available to straight chicks has diversified greatly in the last couple of years.

I’m looking forward to expanding our content with more self-produced movies in the near future. And we’ll still keep adding good quality articles and stories as well.

To celebrate our birthday, we’re going to be running another competition. In the past it’s been an erotic fiction competition but this year we want to do short films. It hasn’t been finalised just yet but watch this space for the official announcement.

Erika Lust’s new film Life Love Lust is now available to stream via Hot Movies!

This new movie consists of three erotic film jewels by the acclaimed director Erika Lust.
LIFE: After finishing the day in the restaurant, a chef and a waitress have an incredible encounter to celebrate his birthday.
LOVE: A forty-something executive seduces a young man she occasionally meets in a city hotel.
LUST: Lola uses her whole body to give an intense skin on skin massage to a shy and lonely woman, driving her to pure ecstasy.
The DVD also includes two extra short films: Handcuffs and Love Me Like You Hate Me.

For a short time, you can also watch Handcuffs for FREE at Hot Movies. I saw this a while ago, it’s a gorgeous little film, beautifully shot and quite intriguing. It won Best Experimental Short Film at CineKink in New York 2010 and Sexiest Short Film of the Year 2010 at The Feminist Porn Awards in Toronto.

Way back in 2002 I sat down and made Pure Cunnilingus, a site devoted to male-female cunnilingus. I did this because there were no other porn sites on the web that featured men going down and it bugged me. I like seeing guys lick clit. It’s hot.

Mainstream porn steadfastly avoids the topic of male muff diving. If you search on the standard slang terms like “rug munching” or similar all you will find are girl-girl photos and movies. If something is categorised as “oral sex” it either means blowjobs or women licking other women. There’s a huge industry blind spot when it comes to male-female cunnilingus.

So in 2002 I made my little site, gathering up as many erotic photos of cunnilingus as I could find and writing stories and articles on the topic. Then in 2004 I upgraded it. Since then it’s been rather neglected, I’m afraid, even though I’ve always been fond of it and the other cunnilingus-themed sites I made (The Cunnilingus Site, Muff Diving Men). I’ve also been busy with For The Girls, of course, which is my main priority.

Last month I finally decided to get off my butt and revamp the site. I’ve added over 45 movies (with more to come), a swathe of new galleries, wrote new articles and stories and made the whole thing look new and whizbang. I also redid the tour pages, spending waaaaaay too long messing around with Photoshop. Yes, it’s very pink. But what other colour should one use for a cunnilingus-based website?

So here’s the end result. It’s now the biggest and best male-female cunnilingus site on the internet! Not that there’s many others, of course, but mine is now the largest. Fans of cunnilingus now don’t have to spend hours trawling around the place trying to find anything that might feature male tongue-on-clit. It’s all in one place.

Right now the site isn’t a paysite, as such. It’s a part of the Netverifier network which includes access to a bunch of sites, including my 20 or so other AVS sites. I like Netverifier because it gives surfers good value for money. It may be that I’ll turn it into a proper paysite in the future as the site grows.

Here’s a few pics that I like:

I have a number of really long-winded blog posts that I need to write but I’ve been busy doing other things the last couple of days. So in order that the blog doesn’t look too dead, I thought I’d whack up a couple of sexy pictures.

I want to see more guys wearing glasses in porn. It’s sexy. And I’ve just written an erotic story for For The Girls about an encounter between two people who met via Twitter. The guy wears glasses.

And dreadlocks. Aren’t they sexy? We need to see more of those too!

This, my friends, is the full cover of Petra Joy’s new DVD Her Porn 2 which has been unleashed onto the world.

Aside from the general fabulousness of this movie, which includes short films from famous directors such as Candida Royalle, Annie Sprinkle, Shine Louise Houston and Maria Beatty, it also includes my film That’s What I Like!

Yes folks, it’s finally on DVD, along with the other finalists from the Petra Joy Awards. So this must mean I’m a REAL pornographer now. 10 years online and a hugely successful paysite doesn’t count. I’m now on a hard copy digital format so I must be real.

Here’s the official blurb:

This compilation celebrates the best porn made by women for women: from sensational porn classics by pioneering directors to the latest erotic flicks by new female directors from around the world.

HER PORN seduces with nearly three hours of sensual viewing pleasure.

What do women want in sex and porn? HER PORN has the answer. We hope you will enjoy the many different flavours of female-made porn – from vanilla to kinky, straight to queer and soft to hard.

The film is in the process of being distributed and I can’t really name any online places to buy it beyond the European store Openerotik.com. And of course, you can order through Petra’s site.

I’ll do another post soon with the trailer for the film, plus a bit more information. But for now, just enjoy the cover. Yes. That’s Mia and Andy right underneath the big red letters. Ooh, I feel all funny.


LIFE LOVE LUST


This is the trailer for Erika Lust’s new film Life Love Lust. As you can see it looks amazing – really high production values and interesting imagery galore. I think Erika’s films are the real future of porn: good quality, interesting stories, hot sex. And I also applaud Erika’s unapologetic determination to cater to straight women.

The official blurb is:

LIFE: After finishing the day in the restaurant they both work in, a chef and a waitress have an incredible encounter to celebrate his birthday. LOVE: A fourty-something executive seduces a young man she sporadically meets in a city hotel. LUST: Lola uses all her sensual body to give an intense skin on skin massage to a shy and lonely woman, driving her to the most pure extasis. LIFE LOVE LUST are three erotic audiovisual jewels by the acclaimed director Erika Lust. This DVD also features two awarded short movies about fetishism: LOVE ME LIKE YOU HATE ME and HANDCUFFS.

The movie is officially released on May 1 but you can pre-order it from the official site here and score extra goodies. You can also watch another trailer and view pics from the movie. Erika’s blog also makes for great reading.

On Saturday the 10th in Toronto, Good For Her announced the winners of the 2010 Feminist Porn Awards. They are:

Best Bi Movie – Fluid: Men Redefining Sexuality | Madison Young | Reel Queer Productions
Hottest Dyke Movie and Hottest Kink Movie| River Rock Women`s Prison | Kathryn Annelle | Triangle Films
Most Deliciously Diverse Cast | Dangerous Curves | Carlos Batts | HeartCore Films
Hottest Feature Film | The Band | Anna Brownfield | Hungry Films
Most Tantalizing Trans Film | Speakeasy | Courtney Trouble| Reel Queer Productions
Sexiest Short | Handcuffs | Erika Lust | Lust Films
TheSmutty Schoolteacher Award for Sex Education | Tristan Taorminos Expert Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men | Tristan Taormino | Vivid Ed and Smart Ass Productions
Best Direction | Des Jours Plus Belles Que La Nuit | Jennifer Lyon Bell & Murielle Scherre | Blue Artichoke Films + La Fille’ D’O
Sexiest Straight Movie | The Deviant | Nica Noelle | Sweet Sinner Video
Good Releasing Emerging Filmmaker Award | Tobi Hill-Meyer
Heartthrob of the Year | April Flores
The Boundary Breaker | Jiz Lee
The Visionary | Shine Louise Houston
The Trailblazer | Tristan Taormino
Hottest Website: Rubysdiary.com

Honorary mentions
Dirty Diaries: 12 Shorts of Feminist Porn
Women Love Porn
Sensual Massage for Pregnancy
Cocksucker

Congratulations to all the winners. You’ll find more info about them and their films on the GFH website.

For The Girls was nominated for Best Website but I’m not really surprised we didn’t win. Maybe when this bastard of a new member’s area is done and we are finally able to forge ahead with all our plans for new content… next year we’ll get the gong. And even then if we don’t, not to worry. To me, seven years of amazing success and happy members is reward enough.

Edit 13th April: Here’s a couple of news stories:
The New Pornographers – Torontoist
San Francisco’s 2010 FPA Winners – The Examiner
Beyond that, there wasn’t much press coverage.

I’m a very grumpy blogger this week, as you’ll know if you’ve been reading my Twitter stream. I had every intention of flying to Canada to finally attend the Feminist Porn Awards this year. I’ve supported the awards since the very beginning and wanted to be there, especially as For The Girls is nominated for best website.

Alas, our best website is what has kept me here. I’m now into the 5th month of a long running battle with a design company to re-do the FTG member’s area. I won’t go into details; suffice to say it’s a cluster fuck. Trying to get it finished has kept me here. And my goodness, it’s made me very unhappy.

Still, I thought I’d best do a blog post and add a few links to some of the pre-show press given to the awards this year.

The best in feminist porn is an overview from Xtra which is Canada’s gay and lesbian news.
Tristan Taormino: A pioneer in porn is an interview and feature of the direct by the same site.
The Feminist Touch – an overview in Varsity.ca
Feminist porn awards selects New Zealand films – a report on NZ director Astrid Glitter’s 2 nominations. Astrid is attending the awards.
Porn reporter Gram Ponante has a sly interview with Alison Lee here.

So best of luck to all the nominees. Wish I could be there. Dammit.

I’ve never seen 30 Rock. It’s on that thing called a TV that used to entertain me before the internet.

In any case, apparently an episode of 30 Rock featured a discussion about porn for women that went like this:

Jack Donaghy (played by Alec Baldwin) is talking to a guy named Dave from Kablevision about new ideas for the network. Jack says they should do porn for women.

Dave’s response: “Jack, women hate porn. Almost as much as men hate going to outlet malls.”

Jack responds: “Yes, women hate porn. Our porn. But women do have one insatiable need — to jabber. And it doesn’t matter if you have a headache, or you’re not in the mood, or you’re about to go to Don Geiss’s funeral, they barge right into your office and start complaining about a boyfriend or a co-worker, and you’re supposed to sit there and nod and tell them they’re right. And the more you give it to them, the more they want it.”

Dave says: “I tell ya, sometimes my wife will be blathering on about something, and I’ll think, ‘I’m more than just a pair of ears, you know? I’m a person … who thinks about sex every seven seconds!’”

(Quotes taken from this blog post.)

Seems the writers of 30 Rock think “porn for women” isn’t actual porn. Rather it’s a simple matter of showing men who listen attentively. Because that’s all we women want. Because we talk so much (and isn’t that annoying?).

I’m surprised they didn’t include some witty comments about shoes while they were at it.

I could go over all the same arguments I’ve written about before when it comes to this rather tired joke about porn for women. But XKCD has done it for me.

Once again, cartoonist XKCD nails it.