26
June
2008

I Took A Ride On The Feminist Carnival0

Just a quick post. Amber Rhea has hosted the latest Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy with a fab post here. It’s chock a blog (yes, that was a typo but I like it so I’ll leave it) full of great posts about the intersection of sex and feminism.
And yes, I’m listed in there [...]

20
June
2008

Can You Guess Which Words I Use Most Often?0

These images are from Wordle, a site that analyses text to see which words are used most often. The first image is made up of my del.icio.us tags. The second one is the result of taking all the posts on the index page (back to 19 May) and seeing what I talked about the most.
I [...]

7
June
2008

My Fourth Year Blogaversary3

June is a big month for milestones, it seems. Today marks the fourth anniversary of when I started the Ms Naughty blog. Back then I was using a very simple script and I wasn’t obsessive about writing everyday, but it was a good start.
Four years of writing around five posts a week is a big [...]

4
June
2008

I Hate Plagiarists6

Yesterday the blogosphere heard about the frustration of blogger Debauchette, who discovered that porn mag Tight had lifted large parts of her writing and passed it off as original.
Today I find I’m in the same boat. Doing a spot of Google rank research for this blog I discovered that some shit site called Radical Left [...]

17
April
2008

Villians!0

The blog has just been through the ringer a little, thanks to a spot of spammer hacking and a subsequent upgrade after hours of fucking around.
Anyway, I’m back again, hopefully it will stay up, especially after I put all the padlocks on the doors, nail the windows shut and load up my virtual shotgun.

15
April
2008

Sex 2.0 And A Sense Of Isolation0

This weekend Amber Rhea’s Sex 2.0 conference was held in Atlanta, Georgia. It was attended by various blogging luminaries like Dacia and Rachel Kramer Bussell and was a general discussion of feminism, sexuality and the internet. It looked very cool and various posts are appearing about the event as I write.
Thing is, though, I wasn’t [...]

28
March
2008

The “Ugly” Conundrum2

Violet Blue’s SF column this week, Ugly Violet, and her subsequent blog post has really struck a chord with me. She writes about the way comment trolls dismiss women because of their appearance and the body image issues women have in our culture. This is a conversation we need to be having and one I [...]

6
February
2008

Blogged Out0

I didn’t post anything yesterday and there’s not much to talk about today either. Slow porn for women week, I guess, but my other problem at present is a growing concern that my blogs are taking up too much time.
I’ve got four full-time blogs at the moment (two are for For The Girls) and I’m [...]

13
September
2007

For The Girls Now Has A Blog0

It’s been a long time coming but I’m pleased to say that For The Girls now has it’s very own blog.
Actually, that’s not quite true. The members area of FTG has had a blog from the very beginning and I’ve faithfully written in that almost every day. Now, however, we’ve added one that’s accessible to [...]

8
June
2007

Interview With Audacia Ray0

Wired’s Regina Lynn has an interview with Audacia Ray about Naked on the Internet here.
I liked this quote:
I did an appearance on the Geraldo at Large show in March. In the interview, they asked, “And how is this dangerous?” at least six different times. That’s a question rooted in crazy technophobia that’s all put off [...]

4
June
2007

Me And Everyone I Know, Naked On The Internet2

“We knew more about each other than most of our friends knew about us.”
This is a quote from Naked On The Internet: Hookups, Downloads and Cashing In On Internet Sexploration. It’s by a sex blogger, talking about how she cultivated friendships with other women online.
As I flicked through Audacia Ray’s new book, the statement rang [...]

27
April
2007

I’m Going To Be On Canadian Radio0

If you’re willing to submit yourself to my Australian accent, you can hear me on the Sex City radio show in Toronto on CIUT FM at around 5.30pm this Saturday night.
That’s 7.30am Sunday morning here. I have to say, I think there should be a rule against 7.30am even existing on Sundays. I am SO [...]

23
January
2007

Interview With Ell From Wilful Damage3

The wonderful Ell runs a very hot, very witty sex blog called Wilful Damage, which has received numerous rave reviews and has many fans. She also Australian, something of a rarity in the sex blog world.
I contacted Ell last year to see if she wanted to be involved in my feature about sex blogging for [...]

10
January
2007

Sex Blogging0

Our feature article at For The Girls this month is about female sex bloggers. I had a really interesting time talking to numerous bloggers for the article - with extra thanks to Always Aroused Girl and Audacia Ray.
I am not a sex blogger in the standard sense of the word. While my blog is about [...]

10
January
2007

Sex Blog Awards0

Suddenly it seems as though sex blogging awards are everywhere!
Nominations for the 2007 Bloggies close today (10th January).
Nominations for the Dirty Spoke Sex Blog of the Year awards close on the 15th January.
A site called KBCafe currently has voting for best sex blog among others, from a huge selection of 2.
I found this “best sex [...]