August
2008
Shine Buys Into The “Women Aren’t Visual” Myth
Playgirl is dead and this has led numerous know-nothings in the media to come to the conclusion that women don’t like porn.
First there was this from Momlogic.
In a small survey at the momlogic office, staff members were shown–well, members–and asked if they thought they were attractive. The responses were less than positive:
“I don’t like any parts of the penis.”
“This is gross.”
Thanks for nothing, Moms. Another advertisement for contraception, it seems.
Now the Yahoo attempt at being girly, Shine, has joined in:
I guess the obvious answer is that besides enduring, outdated social constructions, men tend to be more visually oriented when it comes to sexual fantasizing, women a bit more cerebral, and guys, I don’t mean for that to sound condescending.
Uh, how about apologising for being condescending to the girls? Jeezus, I’m sick of the constant re-iteration of the “women aren’t visual” myth.
Interestingly, I notice that the article is listed under the “astrology” section of Shine. So obviously it’s serious journalism.




In a society in which women are regularly taught that they should approach sexuality with fear and loathing, it’s hardly surprising that many women will develop a sense of aesthetics in which the genitalia are ‘gross’ - c.f. Nancy Friday’s discussion about “the cloaca concept”.