Category: Porn for Women

13 Jun

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Hot Male Centerfolds From FTG

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I have, once again, been busy hand-editing content for the member’s area revamp of For The Girls. Yes, it’s still going. One of the good things about this arduous task has been the way it’s forced me to look at every single photo in our entire site. I’ve become re-acquainted with a lot of pics I’d forgotten about. I’ve also re-enjoyed some of our newer ones.

I thought I’d do a blog post with some sample photos of recent male centerfolds. These pics are all by the talented photographer Nancy Murrian and the guys are just gorgeous. Enjoy.

Hot naked men at For The Girls
Sexy male centerfold
Artistic photo of a nude man
erotica for women, sexy chest photo

You can see the full sets of photos (with erect cocks) at For The Girls.

06 Jun

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The Female Voyeur – Sneak Peek

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The Female Voyeur
Petra Joy has spent over a year working on her latest erotic film, The Female Voyeur. She encountered huge difficulties in getting it made and ended up in hospital halfway through. Thankfully, though, it’s finally ready for release. She’s put the trailer for it here.

I downloaded it and took a few screenshots. The whole thing looks visually amazing and the fantasies on offer are very different from the usual porn fare. I can’t wait to see it.

The Female Voyeur
The Female Voyeur
The Female Voyeur
The Female Voyeur

Visit Petra’s site for more info. Or check out my Petra Joy page at Porn Movies For Women.

03 Jun

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For The Girls Turns 8

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Birthday cakeJune has rolled around again and that means it’s now 8 years since we launched For The Girls.

Allow me to stand around in wide-eyed astonishment for a bit. Eight fucking years! That went quick. It’s also been a bit of a slog, especially over the last 18 months with the never-ending struggle to revamp our member’s area (still going). But wow. I never thought when we started out with our little “porn for women” site that it would still be going strong eight years later. I’ve seen so many changes in the adult industry and porn has practically fallen to pieces over the last year or so but we’re still here and still going strong.

We considered having 8th birthday competitions but we’re going to hold off for a bit. When the revamp finally goes live, we’ll do something big. Because by god that’s going to be worth celebrating.

Thanks to all the lovely women and men who have joined FTG over the years. I hope we made you happy. And thanks to everyone who has supported For The Girls and what it stands for. I still believe that straight women want and need porn that caters specifically to them. It empowers, it entertains, it includes and it satisfies.

Time to open the champagne and eat cake. Who cares if its 10am?

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06 May

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Anti-Porn Feminists Can’t Acknowledge Feminist Porn

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Feminist porn in the SMHA couple of weeks ago I was interviewed (in my Louise Lush filmmaking persona) by Alyssa McDonald and the end result was published today in the SMH: Feminist Porn Faces Hardcore Critics.

I had a decent chat with Alyssa and showed her my film which she enjoyed. I think the end result isn’t too bad, although I wish she’d included some of the other things I’d said. I also have an issue with this paragraph:

The vast majority of explicit material is made for a male audience; at best, it is degrading, and at worst it is often physically harmful to the women featured in it.

This is too much of a generalisation and not backed up by facts. Porn is not inherently degrading and it’s doubtful that porn is “often” physically harmful to the female performers. Not to say that these things are concerns but this is too much of a blanket statement.

My other problem is that last quote about “objectification.” It hasn’t quite come out right. I was questioning the entire concept and the way it’s always trotted out as a criticism of porn. No-one really questions what it means, or whether “objectification” is something that only happens in porn. I was pointing out that objectifying others is a human trait, it happens in everyday life all the time including when we’re at the supermarket.

And, I should say to all the shop assistants at the supermarket: you do an excellent job and thank you for doing it.

As all news articles will seek out an opposing opinion in the name of “balance”, this article features quotes from Sheila Jeffreys who is a professor of Political Science at the University of Melbourne. Prof. Jeffreys is an anti-porn feminist in the mould of Andrea Dworkin and she has also written about transgender issues, much to the consternation of some in the trans community. She is also critical of BDSM practices and has advocated lesbian separatism.

Unfortunately, anti-porn feminism doesn’t seem able to accept the idea that feminist porn might exist or be a force for good. I think this is because it’s founded on the belief that all porn is inherently sexist, harmful and bad. The existence of good porn undermines the basic premise, therefore it must be dismissed.

Anti-porn feminists do this by claiming false consciousness (“feminist pornographers are just regurgitating the same sexist ideas because they are unthinking tools of the patriarchy”), fake marketing (“feminist porn is just a term invented by the mainstream porn industry to sell the same stuff”), or by simply denying that feminist or ethical porn even exists.

Sheila goes for the false consciousness idea right off the bat:

The ideas of the [feminist] filmmakers have been constructed by mainstream pornography, so they don’t come from somewhere completely different.

Firstly, how does she know where feminist filmmakers get their ideas?

Secondly, why would it be wrong to look at mainstream porn, get an idea and then work from there? A lot of us look at porn and make a checklist of what NOT to do. That to me is a positive thing. Perhaps her issue is with the very concept of depicting sex itself; perhaps she believes that any image or footage of people having sex is inherently wrong. Given that anti-porn feminism concerns itself with heterosexual porn, perhaps we’re back to the old Dworkinesque concept that all sex with men is rape and therefore any depiction of it is wrong.

I’m also wondering what “completely different” porn might look like. Because, in the end, sex is sex and there’s only so many ways you can depict it. I’d actually love to hear more about Prof. Jeffreys’ idea of what porn that comes from “somewhere completely different” would look like.

And the culture pornography creates is a culture of violence against women… it’s a culture in which women are shouted at in the street, in which gang-bangs are ordinary in the Australian football league…

Cart before the horse. I actually think that the sexism of our culture sees some of its expression in porn and that’s the kind of porn I don’t like. But to say that porn is what causes footballers to be obnoxious rapists… um, no. Try harder, Homer.

Oh, but there’s feminist erotica. Oh, but there’s something else. And the fact is, thirty-five years on or whatever, I haven’t seen the something else that is completely different…

Again the call for something “completely different.” I’m fascinated as to how different porn needs to be before it meets the standards of Prof. Jeffreys. Poetry instead of dialogue? Unusual costumes? Disco lighting? No sex whatsoever?

I’d like Sheila Jeffreys to actually watch some feminist porn. Maybe not my films but I’m sure the work of Shine Louise Houston or Bren Ryder might be more to her taste. I’d really like to hear a refined critique as to what exactly is wrong with filming two consenting, happy lesbians having sex together and then watching it. (Or two straight people. Or three people. Or six trans guys, a hot gay man and their luscious female friend who has tied them all up and is making them pleasure her with their tongues… Um… what was I saying?)

It really is a shame that anti-porn feminism feels the need to decry feminist or positive or ethical porn. The argument is too black and white. Fact is, the feminist pornographers share some of the concerns of people like Sheila Jeffreys with regards to how porn is made and what it depicts. We should be having a sensible discussion about the whole thing. Instead, we’re denied and derided, dismissed as shills for the mainstream porn industry and excluded from the realm of “true” feminism. It’s no way forward and ultimately doesn’t help women.

For more info on pro-porn feminism, I recommend Violet Blue’s Our Porn, Ourselves site.

16 Apr

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2011 Feminist Porn Awards Winners

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Feminist Porn AwardsThe winners of the 2011 Feminist Porn Awards have been announced. I originally compiled this list from the Twitter feed, which was fun. The official list from Good For Her is now live here.

Sex Experiments: Bisexual Scenes and Sex Interviews – Best Bi Film
A Little Part of Me – Steamiest Romantic Film
Tight Places: A Drop of Color – Most Diverse Cast
Jaiya – Smutty School Teacher
Taxi Volume 1 – Hottest Lesbian Vingette Series
Maybe He’s Gifted – Golden Beaver Award for Canadian Film
An Open Invitation – Sexiest Straight Movie
Billy Castro Does The Mission – Most Tantalizing Trans Film
Lost – Hottest Lesbian Feature
Rough Sex 2 – Hottest Kink Movie
Drew Deveaux – Heartthrob of the Year
Life Love Lust – Movie of the Year

My Own Master – Honorable Mention
Art School Dykes – Honorable Mention
Genderfellator – Honorable Mention
Twisted Getaway – Honorable Mention

Honoured Websites
Heavenly Spire
Art of Blowjob
Queer Porn TV
Padded Kink

Here’s the full list of nominees.

Unfortunately I didn’t win anything this year but it was nice to be nominated. I also want to say that I think Erika Lust deserved Movie of the Year. Life Love Lust is a glorious film and well worth seeing.

I’ve just updated my feminist porn award listings at Porn Movies for Women and made a full list of all the nominations over the past few years.

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14 Apr

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Cake and Cunnilingus Day 2011

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Cake and Cunnilingus DayQuite a while ago I got a little peeved at the whole “Steak and a Blowjob Day” idea. The men behind it reckoned Valentine’s Day was all about women forcing men to buy them gifts and dinner. The whole thing relies on tiresome stereotypes about men and women. So while I could have sat down and written extensive blog posts unpacking the philosophy, I thought, fuck it. Instead I’ll just make a similar day for women a month later on April 14.

Hence, Cake and Cunnilingus Day.

Sure, you could say it’s just as stereotypical but really, does it matter? It’s about eating cake and enjoying oral sex. What’s not to like?

Here’s a little gallery: Cunnilingus In Ten Positions

Or you could check out my major site Pure Cunnilingus which has a huge collection of photos and videos.

A couple of celebratory photos taken from the female point of view:
Female point of view cunnilingusCunnilingus photo

More pics
Sexy threesome and cunnilingus
Sexy couple cunnilingus in a sex swing

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13 Apr

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Porn For Women (?)

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I thought I’d have fun today and thus made a little promo video for For The Girls, messing with the idea of “what women want” – the men doing housework, the bridal stroll along the beach, the romance novels…

I have to say, it took a lot longer than I expected because I had to only use sexy videos that weren’t remotely explicit, while still giving the idea of sex. No nudity, no nipples, nothing beyond kissing. I still suspect the video may end up banned somehow. Even though there are a heap of vids on Youtube with nudity and far sexier content.

Nonetheless I thought I’d at least try my hand with Youtube. You never know how they’re going to interpret the terms and conditions on any given day so I might be fine.

 

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05 Apr

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The Thrill Of Tagging Erotic Fiction

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I’ve just finished hand-editing every single piece of erotic fiction at For The Girls. It was a huge job, manually going through eight years of content, looking at every single story (400+) on the site, fixing the text and photos and then adding categories and tags to each one.

I’ve re-read every one of our erotic stories and there’s just so many brilliant pieces of writing. I’ve been immersed in FTG for so long it’s easy to forgot just how good this site really is. Not to mention hot! Phew. It could well be the steamiest bit of data entry I’ve done for a long time.

I’m so pleased we can tag our stories because it will make finding specific interests/kinks a lot easier. And one of the things that’s really become apparent in this process is just how ridiculously diverse our fiction is. A sample of some of the tags I’ve added over the last few days:

69, amateurs, anal, bisexual, blind, blood, CFNM, costumes, cunnilingus, dancing, double penetration, fairytale, female domination, first time, food, games, glory holes, girl-girl, gothic, infidelity, longing, male escort, MFF, mile high club, multiple men, nipple clamps, orgy, pegging, phone sex, pirates, priests, pubic hair, power play, queer, religion, role-play, romance, rough sex, seduction, sex toys, slaves, spanking, swingers, transgression, virgin, voyeur, wet, whip…

Yeah, so all those people who say “porn for women” is just about candles and romance… STFU, OK?

We’ll also be applying these tags to our photos and movies.

It’s such a huge job, but we’re getting there.

23 Mar

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I’ve Been Nominated For A Feminist Porn Award

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Fucking is the Only Prayer
I just realised that I haven’t actually blogged about the news: my short film Fucking Is The Only Prayer has been nominated for a 2011 Feminist Porn Award. I’m rather chuffed. I suspect it won’t win as it’s only short and there isn’t a short film category. But it’s nice to be listed.

I submitted For The Girls to be considered for a website award but it didn’t make the list. Ah well.

All the nominees are on this page. I haven’t seen many of the nominated films although all the usual names are there. I do recommend Erika Lust’s Life Love Lust and Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Female Orgasms.

Fucking Is The Only Prayer recently screened at Cinekink New York and the Painted Lips and Lolly Licks festival in Canada. It is my second erotic short film. My first, That’s What I Like, was also nominated for a Feminist Porn Award. Both are currently available in full at For The Girls.

You can see the trailer and more screenshots here along with information about the film itself.

I’ve made it using the pseudonym Louise Lush but I’m thinking that I might abandon that name and just be Ms Naughty. It will help prevent confusion in the future.

23 Mar

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The Guardian Does Porn For Women

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Article on women's porn at the GuardianThe Guardian likes to attract clicks by including articles about porn but often the articles are negative in tone and rely on the arguments of anti-porn feminists like Gail Dines. Thankfully they’ve taken a step in the right direction by offering a story on porn for women and including comments by Erika Lust, Anna Span and Petra Joy. Aside from talking about women’s porn like it’s a new thing, the piece is very positive, if a little limited in scope.

Lust says: “Pornographers are usually middle-aged straight guys, with a similar cultural background. They don’t like it when I say that I make porn for women. They say their porn is for everybody and I am the ‘tight’ one. But I just can’t have an intellectual discussion with them, because they don’t measure up. What I’m doing is criticising the kind of porn they have been making for years and offering an alternative.”

Perhaps more interesting are the 250+ comments underneath. Most claim they don’t know how porn for women would be different to other porn. Plenty trot out the usual arguments that not all women are the same or else they dismiss women’s erotica as all candles and romance. I added my own comment here but it’s impossible to really talk about the issue in any depth as a comment.

Following on from the Guardian, Salon’s Tracy Clark Flory asks Why do we care so much about ‘porn for women’?

I was writing about feminist, female-directed porn back in college for my school newspaper. In the seven or so years since then, far more female directors and feminist production companies have premiered on the scene, but we’re still asking the same fundamental question: What is “porn for women,” exactly? I’m interested in a different question, though: Why is this a perennial subject of debate?

Every woman has a different definition of “porn for women” based on her own finicky desires. There might be some common requests — like more kissing, more narrative — but those things are highly subjective.

So Tracy comes to the same conclusion as many others: “porn for women” is a difficult concept to codify. At least she doesn’t go on to completely dismiss the idea because of that.

By the way, the first bit of that paragraph makes me feel fucking old. When I was first building For The Girls over 7 years ago, Tracy was a student. How did that time go so fast?

16 Mar

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Fairy Tale Porn

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Fairy tales, while seemingly innocent, are often rife with sexual imagery and metaphors. The big bad wolf could easily be seen as the corrupter of Little Red Riding Hood’s virginity, for example. For many of us, the fairy tales of our youth may be entangled with our first glimpses of the erotic. For girls, the promise of Prince Charming often lead to speculation about the details of the wedding night.

Thus, we get to fairy tale porn. In theory it should be an exercise in peeking into those dark corners and teasing out the dirty bits hidden within these well-known stories. Unfortunately that’s not often the case; fairytale porn often is the usual porny sex with wigs and corsets added. The whole genre is light-on for titles which is a shame. My guess is that fairy tale porn requires expensive sets and costumes so it’s not made very often.

I had an email asking if there is any female-friendly fairy tale themed porn available. Alas, it seems the pickings are relatively few. I thought I’d list a few here for anyone who’s interested.

Sinderella and Me - fairy tale porn
Sinderella and Me – The is from Nica Noelle’s Sweet Sinner productions and is the only female-friendly title I could find. Nica’s sex scenes don’t follow the usual porn cliches and she always makes sure the women have an orgasm.

The blurb says: “Take one of the most romantic fables of all time, add raw sex, passion, and explosive orgasms to the classic fairy tale. She can’t live happily ever after without hot sex!” Continue Reading

08 Mar

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Room 33 By Erika Lust

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Room 33 Erika Lust from boolab on Vimeo.

Here is Room 33, a new sexy movie by Erika Lust (as written about in this post from a few days ago). It just looks luscious.

And what I really admire is the way Erika can tell her story with minimal dialogue or none at all; she’s really good at getting ideas and emotions across through framing, editing and good acting. That’s the wonderful thing: Erika is a very talented filmmaker who has decided that her subject is sex. She has a discerning eye for sets and situations and she shoots with quality equipment like the Canon 5D. She sets a very high bar for the rest of us. I know when I’m planning my next film, I’ll be thinking about how Erika has done hers.

25 Feb

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Dusk Erotic TV Channel For Women Has 1.2 Million Viewers

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Dusk TVIn Berlin in October 2009 I had the opportunity to meet Martijn Broersma, a TV executive who had just set up an adult cable channel for women in the Netherlands called Dusk. We talked about porn for women and he invited me to submit my film “That’s What I Like” and anything else I made.

2010 rolled around and I got bogged down in the drama of trying to revamp For The Girls. I didn’t make any more movies until November. And I didn’t get around to sending off my films until just recently. Silly me.

Since I met Martijn, Dusk has been beavering away (as it were), turning itself into an impressive channel that now caters to over 1.2 million women.

Dusk says they offer “porna” – a new term they coined to describe erotic material that was different from the usual “porno”. Their main market is straight women and they offer films like Erika Lust’s Barcelona Sex Project, Candida Royale’s films and Matinee by the gorgeous Jennifer Lyon Bell.

“Holland is lucky to have Dusk. There is definitely a market of under-served women [in the United States] who would love to have something like this,” said Bell. “There is a revolution going on right now in porn, in alternative and feminist porn, and yet there aren’t a lot of outlets for it to be sold.”

In 2004 there was an attempt to set up a similar erotic channel for women in the US. Inpulse TV was launched with fanfare but I never heard another thing about it. Perhaps the time wasn’t right.

I guess the last few years have seen a growth in the number of women who enjoy porn and are actively seeking it out.

The other interesting thing about Dusk is they actively invite women to comment on what they like via their site. This means the films are partly selected by the viewers, a nice intiative.

My films aren’t on Dusk yet but they will be soon.

25 Feb

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I Recommend: The Expert Guide To Female Orgasms

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The Expert Guide To Female OrgasmsLast month I reviewed Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Female Orgasms for For The Girls and I’m overdue to talk about it here.

Put simply, I loved it.

It’s the latest in Tristan’s Expert Guide series in which she presents sex education accompanied by scenes of hot sex. The important thing is, the sex isn’t your usual porny stuff. Instead, the lovely porn stars demonstrate how to have good sex, the kind of stuff that results in female orgasms.

And by damn, if there’s isn’t a plethora of good sex female orgasms in this film.

Tristan gives a no-nonsense yet entertaining run down of female anatomy and psychology before discussing techniques. In between we’re treated to five different couples getting it on. The female stars were invited to choose their partners and are given the freedom to have sex however they like. On hand are a variety of sex aids including the ubiquitous Hitachi Magic Wand.

This film proves one thing: if you want to guarantee a female orgasm, make sure you have a mains-powered vibrator handy.

The sex ranges from very soft and quiet (Evanni Solei and Evan Stone) to playful and slightly rough – with anal (Adrianna Nicole and James Deen). There’s also a lovely scene starring Madison Young and Jiz Lee mixing it up with vibrators, dildos and lots of fisting. It’s good to see Vivid expand its boundaries and include a queer scene in there.

The other great thing about this film are the interviews with the stars. They talk honestly about what turns them on, how they masturbate, what it feels like to have an orgasm.

In short, The Expert Guide To Female Orgasms is fabulous. If you want to see porn that gives priority to female pleasure, respects its performers and delivers some seriously slide-off-your-seat sex, this film delivers in spades.

Please visit Porn Movies for Women for a selection of over 300 female-friendly films

25 Feb

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Gail Dines On Lady Porn Day

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I have to hand it to Rabbit Write. Her Lady Porn Day idea has hit the big time with numerous articles in the mainstream media. The latest is this one on ABC News.

What’s interesting in this piece is that Gail Dines has taken a step back from her “all porn is evil” stance. She actually concedes that there is some feminist and female-friendly porn available.

“This is a distraction to take our eyes off what’s really going on, which is the increasingly brutal nature of the porn that men are using.”…

“There are some women making pornography, but they’re not really bleeps on the industry map. What I’m more concerned with is the type of porn that most men watch when they’re alone,” she says.

Admittedly it’s not much of a concession but if we consider that last month she was saying that any porn for women was made by men, it’s a step forward.

Now if we can just get her to acknowledge that her concern is primarily with extreme gonzo – and if she backs off from calling for censorship – and if she stops making generalisations about “most men” and uses better data – then maybe we can have a real discussion.

Although it doesn’t help that she says watching mainstream porn is “anti-feminist”. But then, maybe that’s just the usual no-true-scotsman argument about what feminism means.

Great to see comments in there by Clarissa Smith. Please consider taking part in her pornography research project.