Lies and the Lying Liars that Lie About “Vaginas”

Seems I’m not the only one posting about vulvas. Shakes gives her take on the issue in Fantasic and Vulvastic, while Figleaf discovers that people have been asking “what type of vulvas do men prefer?” This last post reminded me about the whole nasty issue that is “female genital enhancement.” An entire industry now exists whose sole purpose is to encourage women’s insecurity about their genitals so that they will Read More …

Read My Lips: It’s VULVA, Not Vagina

The “Vagina Lady”, Eve Ensler, has launched the latest aspect of her “vagina franchise”, an arts festival focusing on violence against women. The New York Times has an interview and article here. Now, I respect Ms Ensler for almost everything that she has done. She works hard for her charity and her play, The Vagina Monologues, has brought the issue of women’s body image into the spotlight. What frustrates me, Read More …

Women’s Brains React Extremely Fast to Erotic Images

According to an article in Live Science, researchers have found that women’s brains react to erotic images faster and stronger than any other image. Electroencephalogram (EEG) tests on 264 women monitored their reactions to images of “water skiers, snarling dogs, partially clad couples in sensual poses, and other scenes.” Whaddya know, the partially clad couples caused women’s brains to fire 20% faster than any other picture. “Previous research indicated men Read More …

Sugasm #36

The Sugasm thing went a bit pear shaped for a few weeks, but it seems that they’ve got their act together again. So here’s the latest one. Enjoy. This week’s best of the sex blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Want in Sugasm #37? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist by the end of next Monday night and Read More …

Butlers In The Buff

Thanks to Yahoo News I now know a lot more about a new company called Butlers In The Buff. This is a British service that offers nearly-naked men as waiters and attendants at functions and parties. Thus, if you’re having a hen’s night, private party, corporate function or wedding reception, you can hire a bunch of buff, good looking nude men to serve your horse doovers (I believe that’s spelt Read More …

Ms Naughty Turns Agony Aunt About Porn and Penises

I got an email from a reader asking advice. Since he told me I could post my response in his blog, I thought I’d answer and whack the whole lot up here for your voyeuristic gratification. Please note: I’m not a sex therapist, so don’t even think about pretending this is professional advice. And names have been withheld to protect the guilty. Dear Ms Naughty, I’ve been reading your blog Read More …

Feminist Porn Awards Follow Up + Board Comments

The National Post has a nice feature article discussing the recently held feminist porn awards. A few quotes: “‘It’s not that sex is degrading – sex is awesome. It was the images that were degrading,’ explained Abiola Abrams, an African-American porn producer based in New York.” “While feminist porn is made for women, the directors hope there will be a sort of sexual trickle-down effect, that men will see what Read More …

Hunk of the Week: Shane

I’ve been fairly busy over the last few days, haven’t had a chance to blog in my usual verbose way. So today’s post is just a quick pic of the Hunk of the Week from today’s update at For The Girls. Shane here has an impressive six-pack and a bit of a square jaw, but he still looks about 19. Cute, I think.

Hand Me A Tissue, Please

Now here’s a photo you don’t see often in porn: cleaning up the semen with a humble tissue. You know, like people do. This photo is from our featured couple pictorial for April at For The Girls. The lovely man and woman in the pics do a lot of kissing in the great outdoors before stripping off and fucking on a handy DIY sex swing. It’s a great set because Read More …

Feminist Porn Awards – The Winners

Good For Her has published the winners of their first ever Feminist Porn Awards: Hottest Anal Adventure Winner: House of Ass | Tristan Taormino; Adam & Eve Presented by Josey Vogels and Carrie Singh Best Smutty Schoolteacher (Educational) Winner: Orgasmic Women | Betty Dodson Presented by Rebecca Rosenblatt (aka Dr. Date) & Valerie Scott (Sex Professionals of Canada) Sexiest, Most Diverse Performers Winner: Caribbean Heat | Manuela Sabrosa; Femme Productions Read More …

A Spot Of Kama Sutra On A Friday

I successfully upgraded the blog without any hassles. Imagine that. No glitches or errors that it takes half a day to fix! So to celebrate I’m going to include this rather improbable photo from a wonderful photo set we have at For The Girls. I don’t think the position has a name, but it looks like it should be called “The Orgasmic Necktie” or “Understanding Calculus” or “Coalition of the Read More …

For The Girls Launches Erotic Fiction Competition

And now… an announcement. For The Girls has launched a new erotic fiction competition to celebrate their 3rd birthday. Writers are invited to submit quality erotic stories that have been written specifically for a female audience. Each story must contain at least one instance of cunnilingus. The winner will receive $200 and a month’s membership to For The Girls, and their story will be published on the website. The runner Read More …

A Little 3rd Birthday Musing

So, today is June 1. Three years ago For The Girls was launched. Time flies, doesn’t it? For The Girls was a fairly modest site when it started out, but we had big plans for it. My partner and I firmly believed in what we were doing. Women like us wanted porn – but those women wanted a different kind of porn, presented in a more inclusive way. Oh, and Read More …

“Slut, Whore, Bitch!” – The Language of Porn

I was recently discussing the idea of women’s porn with another female webmaster. She had concluded that it was all about roses and romance, and being treated with kid gloves, which was not her thing. We also talked language. “Text that says ‘Cum watch these hungry sluts getting gagged on cock” is something that I would click to view,” she said. I was musing about that sentence when I read Read More …